The hidden reason you still don’t know your next step
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Hello JAM Fam,
One of the most convincing ways an intuitive healer stays unseen is by waiting for the perfect name before taking the next step. What should we call ourselves? Is the business name right? Does the tagline capture everything we do? These questions can sound productive while quietly keeping us in preparation—waiting to feel certain before allowing ourselves to be seen.
We both remember spinning endlessly around these same questions. We believed that once we found the perfect words, we would finally know how to move forward. What we did not yet understand was that naming was sometimes the place we hid from becoming. We were asking language to give us an identity that only lived experience could reveal. The answers did come—but many became inevitable only after we claimed the path and began walking it.
Claiming is the third step in our Micro-Breakthrough Method, following Awareness and Acceptance. It is not pretending to have arrived or forcing ourselves into a title we have not earned. It is our active “yes” to the Universe: We are ready to become the person who can carry what we feel called to offer. Once we claim that direction, the next conversation, practice, decision, skill, or opportunity becomes easier to recognize. If we do not yet know the next action, we can begin by claiming who we are becoming—and allow the path to meet our participation.
There comes a point in every growth journey when more self-inquiry is no longer the next best step. A better question is:
What can I do now that creates greater stability, flow, and well-being in my life right now?
That question is our focus this week in our community and across social media: sustainable, real abundance across our relationships, careers, health, wealth, love, and service. We do not need to have the entire journey figured out before saying yes. Sometimes claiming who we are becoming is precisely what awakens the courage, abundance, and clarity required for the next step to appear.
COMING UP THIS WEEK:
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This week is all about cultivating a connection and familiarity with abundance as a tool for taking action.

We kick things off on Monday with a live, guided, experience of QUE Up Abundance and then a community call, The Triple Win and Abundance, to share how the embodiment of your personal power impacts your experience and ability to take action from a place of abundance. Too often we are taught to accept our current conditions, act as if, and practice gratitude at a time when these ideas are the least helpful. We will help clarify what does work on this call.
We will continue the week with live calls each morning at 8AM PT for a guided experience and teaching transmission for abundance. Here is the call schedule below:
Monday, September 28:
- Livestream at 8:00 - 8:30 AM PT, launching 7-Days of QUE Up Abundance
- Livestream with Q&A at 1:00-2:00 PM PT, join our Community Call, The Power of the Triple Win and Abundance, where we will explore the co-creative trinity that makes abundance sustainable, more predictable, and a lot more fulfilling.
Tuesday, September 29 - Sunday October 4:
- Livestream at 8:0 AM PT for QUE Up Abundance
On Social Media
You can join us live on YouTube or Facebook
We have started a new show on YouTube called Morning JAM (J=Joy, A=and, M=Matt). It’s a little bit podcast, a little bit teaching, and a lot of transmission from our hearts to yours as we all navigate the changing landscape of intuitive healing, coaching, and leadership beyond the era of the Guru.
You can find our show most weekdays at 8:30 AM PT. This week, we will be live from Monday through Friday, talking about the misconceptions and powerful tools to help us:
understand and expand our intuitive abilities
discover how to stop delaying our own healing
discover to recognize cult programming or communities built around gaslighting
learn how to overcome purpose-shame and share your gifts
make friends and build the community you actually want
In The Healer’s Code Academy
We see you emerging leaders. Your communication is getting clearer and you are coming out of hiding.
Inside The Healer’s Code Academy, we want to congratulate our students on their incredible breakthroughs! As they continue to learn the precise framework for how change actually works they are able to apply what they are learning in real-time to support their clients with more precision and predictability. Years of playing small and feeling stuck in a loop are falling away and their lives and businesses are opening up…and it’s only month 4!
What is the Healer's Code Academy? You can learn more here.
We are now accepting applications for our next cohort, which begins January 2027. If you are interested in becoming the intuitive healer, coach, numerologist, or leader you were born to be, please reply to this email with “Academy” and we will personally send you the next steps.
With love,
Matt and Joy Kahn
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