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When Letting Go Feels Impossible

Jun 25, 2025
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Dear Beloved Friend,

Last week, we opened up about the unexpected portal that AI led us through, a conversation that was as much about presence as it was about the future.

This week, we’re going even deeper.
Not into technology.
But into something much more human. Much more tender.

Grief.

Before we move on, we have a live YouTube call this Friday, June 27th at Noon (Pacific Time). We will be providing an Energy Update for July 2025 as well as answering some of your most thought-provoking questions. We look forward to being with you soon. Join us on Friday HERE.

We didn’t plan to record this conversation.
It was sparked by a message from one of you, asking how we got through it. The heartbreak. The loss. The letting go.

So, we sat down and told the truth. Without planning, we shared things we’ve never shared publicly.

In this episode of The Timing Effect Podcast, we talk about the grief that shaped us and the quiet ways we tried to escape it.

🎧 LISTEN ON APPLE | LISTEN ON SPOTIFY | WATCH ON YOUTUBE

We share:

💔 The moments that broke us open
💔 The ways we tried to bypass grief (and how it caught up with us anyway)
💔 The real reason healing didn’t begin until we stopped trying to "get over it"
💔 The sacred structure we eventually found inside the mess

This isn’t just about the grief of losing someone.

It’s about the grief of becoming someone new.

If you’re carrying something heavy right now, we hope this conversation meets you gently, like a hand on your back, reminding you that you’re not alone. That you’re not broken. That your healing has its own timeline.

We’re walking with you.

With love and timing,
Matt & Joy

PS: Next week, we’re exploring surrender. Not the kind that gives up, but the kind that lets go. We’ll talk about what real surrender feels like and why giving in might be the bravest thing you do.

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